Sex quiz for couples
A sexual compatibility test made for two: each of you answers direct questions about sex in private, and only what you both want shows up. Free to start.
Updated October 16, 2026

Most “sexual compatibility tests” are made for one person: you answer and get a generic profile. Intimacy is a quiz for two. Each of you answers in private, and the result shows what you both want, without ever revealing what either of you turned down.
How it works
- Each of you answers on your own phone, or both on one phone, one at a time. Nobody sees the other’s answers.
- For each question: no, if my partner wants, yes or very much. You can skip any of them.
- At the end, only your shared interests appear, with how much each of you wants them, and where to start.
What the quiz asks
The questions are direct, no euphemisms, and range from foreplay to the boldest fantasies. They are grouped into chapters:
- Kissing and foreplay
- Oral
- Penetration and positions
- Anal
- Orgasm and finishing
- Moments and places
- Talk, words and affection
- Toys
- Dominance and submission
- Pain and intensity
- Fantasy and role-play
- Exhibition and recording
- Other people and fetishes

What you get
- The number of interests you share and how much each of you wants them: both very keen, both keen, or an “if my partner wants”.
- The chapters where you match the most.
- Practical ideas from the result: date-night plans, guides and positions.
Privacy
Each person’s answers stay with them. Your partner never sees a “no”. You can delete everything whenever you want, and the name on the card statement is discreet if you go Premium.
Frequently asked questions
Does my partner see my answers?
No. The result only shows what you both picked. If you said “no” to something, your partner never sees it.
Is the quiz free?
Yes, to start. Seven chapters have a free result. The six Secret Desires chapters can be answered for free; their result is part of Premium.
Do I need to sign up?
No. You can start without an e-mail and save your progress to an account later, if you like.
How long does it take?
About 15 minutes per person, and you can pause and come back later.
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