Intimacy

Your answers stay yours

Only what you both want shows up.

Each of you answers direct questions about sex, in secret. Intimacy shows only the interests you share, and where to start. Your partner never sees a “no”.

Start the quiz

Free to start · no card · no sign-up required · about 15 minutes

  • One phone or two
  • 235 questions in 13 chapters
  • Delete everything whenever you like

How many desires do you share?

At the end you see the number, the chapters where you match most and every interest you both marked, with how much each of you wants it. What only one of you marked never shows up.

A question from the quiz

Kissing and foreplay1/13

Get a full-body oil massage?

NeverNoIf Alex wantsYes!OMG Yes!

Five answers, from “never” to “absolutely”. Skip anything you like.

A couple’s result

Alex & Sam

  • 9Both really want it
  • 22Both want it
  • 16To talk about

Where you match most

  1. Moments and places6 you both want1
  2. Penetration and positions4 you both want2
  3. Orgasm and finishing3 you both want3

Your partner never sees a “no”, only what you both marked.

How it works

  1. 1Answer in secret

    Each on your own phone, or both on the same one. Neither sees the other's answers.

  2. 2See what matches

    Only the interests you both marked appear. The rest stays private.

  3. 3Plan the night

    Night plans and practical guides turn the result into something to do together.

Your answers stay yours. Your partner never sees a “no”. You can delete everything whenever you like.

The result, seen together or each on their own

235 direct questions, in 13 chapters

No beating around the bush: the quiz talks about sex the way adults do. Skip any question you like. The first 7 chapters are free; the 6 Secret Desires chapters are answered for free, and their result is part of Premium.

  • Kissing and foreplay
  • Oral
  • Penetration and positions
  • Anal
  • Orgasm and finishing
  • Moments and places
  • Talk, words and affection
  • ToysSecret Desires
  • Dominance and submissionSecret Desires
  • Pain and intensitySecret Desires
  • Fantasy and role-playSecret Desires
  • Exhibition and recordingSecret Desires
  • Other people and fetishesSecret Desires

Secret Desires · Premium result

After the result, something to do tonight

Intimacy turns what you have in common into a next step: a night plan, a practical guide or a new position.

Night plans for two

16 plans

Dinner at home, a slow morning, a playful night: each with what to prepare and a timeline.

Practical guides

15 guides

Direct, practical guides: hands, mouth, toys, dirty talk, edging together.

Illustrated positions

57 positions

Illustrated with wooden mannequins, filtered by place, anatomy and intensity. Mark what you want to try; what you both marked shows up.

Your answers stay yours

Intimacy was built so that nobody has to say it first.

  • Your partner never sees a “no”, only what you both marked.
  • Sent answers can’t be reopened, so nobody can find yours by trial and error.
  • No ad networks, no selling data. Nothing intimate leaves the app.
  • Start without an e-mail. Delete everything in Settings whenever you like.

Free to start. Premium for the two of you.

The quiz, the result of the first chapters, 10 positions, 4 plans and 3 guides are free. Premium opens the rest, for both of you, with one purchase.

  • Quiz resultschapters, Secret Desires included713
  • Illustrated positions1057
  • Night plans for two416
  • Practical guides315
  • Retake the quiz togetheronceanytime
  • New plans and guides, often
  • YearlyBest value · 52% off

    $3.33 a month

    $39.99 / year

  • Monthly

    One Premium covers you both.

    $6.99 / month

  • Lifetime

    Pay once · for both of you, forever

    $79.99

  • One Premium covers you both.
  • 7 days to ask for a refund, no questions asked.
  • Cancel anytime in Settings. Card, Apple Pay and Google Pay.
  • On your card statement the charge appears as “Ice Cold Lime”, not Intimacy.
Start free

The payment screen only appears if you want Premium, inside the app.

Questions couples ask

Will my partner see my answers?

No. Only the interests you both marked show up, with how much each of you wants them. A “no”, a “never” or a skipped question is never shown.

Do we need two phones?

No. You can pass one phone back and forth: the app asks whose turn it is before each chapter and hides the other person’s answers. Or each of you answers on your own phone, whenever you like.

How long does it take?

About 15 minutes per person for the first chapters. You can save and come back; the result appears when both of you have finished.

Can I do it on my own?

Yes. Answer on your own, read your personal reading and invite your partner when you want. Your answers stay private before and after.

What does Premium include?

The result of the Secret Desires chapters (toys, dominance and submission, intensity, fantasies, exhibition, other people and fetishes), the whole position catalog, all plans and guides, retaking the quiz whenever you like, and new content often. One Premium covers both of you.

Can I cancel or get a refund?

Yes. Cancel the subscription anytime in Settings and keep access until the end of the paid period. Within 7 days of any purchase, write to [email protected] and we refund it, no questions asked.

Is it discreet?

You can start without an e-mail. Public pages and link previews only show wooden mannequins in everyday scenes. On your card statement the charge reads “Ice Cold Lime”.

Is there an app?

Yes, without any app store: Intimacy installs from the website. On Android, open it in Chrome and tap Install (or ⋮ → Install app). On iPhone, in Safari, tap Share and then Add to Home Screen. It gets an icon, opens full screen and can let you know when your partner finishes.

Tonight, you could already know.

Free to start, no card, no sign-up. One phone or two.