Is there a yes, no, maybe app for couples?
Yes. The yes, no, maybe list works better in an app, where nobody has to show their own list. Four options compared, plus the free printable version.
Updated October 24, 2026
Why an app beats the paper list
The weak spot of the paper list is the moment you compare: someone shows theirs first, and it is easy to glance at every “no”. An app does the comparison for you and shows only the overlap. You keep the honesty of answering alone without the awkward swap.
Four options
Intimacyour appWebsite
- Best for
- Couples who want to know what they would both like to try in bed, then get date-night plans, guides and positions to do it.
- Price
- Free to start; Premium $6.99 a month, $39.99 a year or $79.99 once, one Premium for both of you
- Where
- Browser, installs as an app from the website on Android and iPhone; five languages
- Strong point
- 235 private questions with five levels of desire; only what you both want shows up and a sent answer never reopens.
- Weak point
- New in October 2026: no app-store ratings yet and no custom questions.
SpicerWebsite
- Best for
- Couples who want many yes/maybe/no idea packs and everyday challenges.
- Price
- Spicer Plus $6.99 or $59.99 (periods not named on the store), lifetime $109.99; packs $1.99–$5.99
- Where
- iPhone and Android, with linked accounts on both phones
- Strong point
- Only topics you both marked yes or maybe become matches; 24-hour challenges, wishlist, custom questions and chat.
- Weak point
- Two installs and two linked accounts; a double “maybe” already counts as a match; advanced packs cost extra.
Secret Desires (Couple Game)Website
- Best for
- Couples who want a quick card game for tonight.
- Price
- $4.99 a week, $24.99 a year or $24.99 lifetime
- Where
- iPhone; both of you on the same phone
- Strong point
- Each of you swipes in secret and only the cards you both wanted are revealed; lifetime costs the same as a year.
- Weak point
- Only yes or no, no way to say how much; iPhone only.
Mojo UpgradeWebsite
- Best for
- Couples who want the classic free questionnaire with nothing to install.
- Price
- Free
- Where
- Browser; English
- Strong point
- Free and web-based; shows only where you both match.
- Weak point
- Dated design and content, and little to do after the result.
Prices from the US App Store on October 22, 2026 (Intimacy from its website).
Three levels or five?
Classic lists use yes, maybe and no. Intimacy uses five: Never, No, If my partner wants, Yes!, OMG Yes!. The middle one matters: “if my partner wants” lets someone be open to a thing without asking for it, and the result shows how much each of you wants it, not only whether.
Want to try it on paper first? Print our free yes, no, maybe list for couples.
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Frequently asked questions
Is there a yes, no, maybe app for couples?
Yes. Intimacy turns the yes, no, maybe list into a private quiz with five levels instead of three, and shows only what you both want. Spicer uses yes, maybe and no in idea packs, Secret Desires is a yes-or-no card swipe, and Mojo Upgrade is a free web questionnaire.
Is there a free yes no maybe list?
Yes. Our printable yes, no, maybe list is free, and Intimacy is free to start: seven of its 13 chapters have a free result.
Do we have to show each other our lists?
Not in an app. Each of you answers alone and only the overlap appears. On paper, compare only the items you both marked yes or maybe.
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